You Are Enough and I Am Enough
You Are Enough
Updated version May, 2021
Feeling like You Are Enough is the backbone of a successful business. This is how you nourish unconditional self-love and Feeling Enough.
I'm sharing something deeply personal with you. But it's as much about you as it is about me. We all know that 'Feeling Enough' is incredibly important. Right?
We often sort of THINK we feel enough, but then the universe throws challenges into our direction to remind us that nourishing unconditional self-love and Feeling Enough, No. Matter. What. is ongoing work.
And that it's Much Much More than saying One Time: I am Enough.
WANT AN EXAMPLE?
During a Mastermind session with my business coach I had a deeply painful realization.
And I wept. I cried like young children cry. I stood in the kitchen and my husband (bless him) held me and let me cry.
During that Mastermind session I got confronted with a Huge Stinking Big thing from the past that left me to feel ‘Not Enough At All!!’
We were doing a business exercise and suddenly I heard my mother's voice - as if she was standing next to me - :
"You always spoil the mood. People don't like being around you because they are afraid of you. You are too selfish, aggressive and angry to be loved"
Even though I have done ‘the work’ and thought ‘Hey, I’m okay, I’m ready! I’ dived deep!’, I realized that somewhere deep down I was still convinced that people hated being around me.
Because who wants to be around someone who is too selfish to be loved?
Like I said: the Work is never done. Even when you think you're doing fine.
As businesswomen, we always move forward. We constantly climb to the Next Level, where we will meet our proverbial Next Devil. We constantly change our situation, we climb the ladder on a daily base. That's who we are.
Can I have a High Five for that amazing fact?
AS A RESULT THIS WILL HAPPEN FOR SURE
* A client (or friend, or family member) pushes every button or crosses your boundaries, because we - unconsciously - are used to being treated like this and don't say: No, you can't treat me like this.
* You are afraid to ask for money (or give everything away for tiny prices) and even though you love your business it never brings in (more than) enough money.
* You give away too much for free because you are afraid that what you offer is not unique/special enough for people to buy something from you.
* You launch an offer and only some people buy. You feel ashamed, doubt yourself like crazy (you and me both, sister!) and you can look at the 'You Are Enough' sign on that mirror, but in reality you feel like crap.
As entrepreneurs we're constantly moving forward to our Next Level. So we will For Sure always find an asshole of a New Devil!
Do you understand how incredibly courageous you are for taking this entrepreneurial path? At the core of The New Devil is always that sinking, life-sucking feeling of:
“Who I Am is Not Enough”
I should be kinder, more forgiving, more patient, smarter, more beautiful, attractive, more deserving, thinner, more successful .... bla, bla, bla.....
(fill in your own: "I should be more's")
After my own deep dive into this old pain, I’m excited to remind you that YOU ARE ENOUGH!!! and that I AM ENOUGH.
I went for the full action-pack of healing. I tapped, I shifted and my phone rings three times a day with a message that says: Esther, you are loved.
Who you are Right Now is Enough.
You are Enough, by Grace Byers
Here's what works
Esther de Charon de Saint Germain is mother, partner, friend, sister and aunt and a self-love advocate and business and branding strategist. A speaker, author, soul whisperer, and the founder of the Brave Movement that teaches women entrepreneurs to build a business based on self-love, radical self-acceptance, and true confidence. Featured in Huffington Post, Marie Claire, Elle, and Thrive Global, Esther is the founder of the Self Love Success Club Follow Esther at Instagram | Facebook I Pinterest
Say OUT LOUD ‘I am enough’ and carry that deep sense of belonging with you for the rest of the day. For extra support, I also share a wonderful Brad Yates tapping video.
Wonderful friend, I wish you a beautiful love-filled week. No matter what you're going through right now.
YOU ARE ENOUGH AND YOU ARE LOVED
Let Brad Yates help you to tap on You Are Enough
Wonderful you, I wish you a beautiful love-filled week. No matter what you're going through right now.
And if you want our support making self-love and self-confidence the rockstars of your business... we have a fantastic Module on Self Love and feeling enough in the Self Love Success Club. Join when we are open, or get on the waitlist
YOU ARE ENOUGH AND YOU ARE LOVED
All my love,
Esther de Charon de Saint Germain
Self-love advocate, brave branding & business strategist