I had a painful realization last week and I like to share it with you, dear friend
Not because I need sympathy (though I love virtual hugs!) but because this is about you and me and basically every human being on this planet.

Okay, ready? 

Last week I wept. I cried like young children can cry. I stood in the kitchen and my husband (bless him) held me and let me cry.

This happened. 

I had a Mastermind session with my own Mastermind and got confronted with a Huge Stinking Big thing from the past that left me to feel ‘Not Enough At All!!’

We were doing an exercise and suddenly I heard my mother's voice: "You always spoil the mood. People don't like being around you because they are afraid of you. You are too selfish, aggressive and angry to be loved"

Even though I have done ‘the work’ and thought ‘Hey, I’m okay, I’m ready! I’ dived deep!’, I realized that somewhere deep down I was still convinced that people hated being around me.

Because who wants to be around someone who is too selfish to be loved?

Like I said: the Work is never done. Even when you think you're doing fine.

As businesswomen, we always move forward. We constantly change our situation, we climb the ladder on a daily base. That's who we are.

Can I have a High Five for that amazing fact?

Because of our constant moving forward to new the Next Level we also For Sure will find an asshole of a New Devil!


Do you understand how incredibly courageous you are for taking this path? At the core of The New Devil is always that sinking, life-sucking feeling of:

Who I Am is Not Enough”

I should be kinder, more forgiving, more patient, smarter, more beautiful, attractive, more deserving, thinner, more successful .... bla, bla, bla..... (fill in your own: "I should be more's")

So after my own deep dive into this old pain, I’m excited to remind you that YOU ARE ENOUGH!!! and that I AM ENOUGH.

I went for the full action-pack of healing. I tapped, I shifted and my phone rings three times a day with a message that says: Esther, you are loved.

Who you are Right Now is Enough.


Say OUT LOUD ‘I am enough’ and carry that deep sense of belonging with you for the rest of the day. For extra support, I also share a wonderful Brad Yates tapping video.

Wonderful friend, I wish you a beautiful love-filled week. No matter what you're going through right now.


Wonderful [FIRST NAME GOES HERE], I wish you a beautiful love-filled week. No matter what you're going through right now.


All my love,

Esther de Charon de Saint Germain
Self-love advocate, brave branding & business strategist

Esther de Charon de Saint Germain

Esther de Charon de Saint Germain is a self-love advocate and business and branding strategist. A speaker, author, soul whisperer, and the founder of the Brave Movement that teaches women entrepreneurs to build a business based on self-love, radical self-acceptance, and true confidence. Featured in Huffington Post, Marie Claire, and Thrive Global, Esther is the founder of the Self Love Success Follow Esther at Instagram | Facebook

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