WHEN YOU'RE BLOCKED BY FEAR
and all the asshole voices come out to play
Do you instantly know when you're being lead by fear instead of faith and trust? There is a simple trick. Listen to the many voices within. When there's an entire stadium of voices all talking at the same time you are Most Likely not in a State of Ease and Flow.
How do I know? Well, it happens to me ALL the Freaking Time:
So, I'm sharing a Super Vulnerable Scared Shitless Big Fat Insight with you.
Are you ready to have a - Not So Pretty - look into my head?
Today - actually just now 1 hour ago - I realized today that I'm being pretty mean to/with myself, and completely non-grateful!
And that I'm totally blocking my flow of Ease and Grow!
Here's what that sounds like (and maybe you recognize some of it)
Remember Chandler from Friends? Well, he's come out to play TOO.
THIS HAPPENS IN MY HEAD
"I want to live near the beach. I'm a child from the sea... So if I work HARDER I will hit the 1M mark somewhere in 2020. And I can buy a house near the beach."
VOICE OF SELF-PITY:
"But maybe it takes me longer, and I'm almost 60 and I MIGHT be dead a couple of years later."
MS FAKE POSITIVITY:
"Yes, but COME ON, lots of people become wealthy and successful after 60."
VOICE OF REASON:
"Well, maybe BUT they were already successful. "
"Sweetheart, so are you."
SIGH . . .
"Well, not successful enough. I don't HAVE 3,500 people in my membership. And I live in bloody the Netherlands in the Middle OF Nowhere."
VOICE OF REASON:
"No, you don't SERVE 3,500 women yet, but you DO SERVE almost 300. And you have a lot of clients. And may I remind you that your house is pretty large and so is your garden. And that many people live in a much smaller place. Or on the streets!"
"How ungrateful are YOU!"
"Pfff . . . 300 members, that's nothing. I just have to work harder! And do you even KNOW how much work it is to keep that house clean. It's a MESS! The freaking Upstairs Loo is broken for over a year! And did you even SEE that garden?"
SERIOUSLY . . .
VOICE OF REASON:
"OMG how UNGRATEFUL ARE YOU! By the way: If you work EVEN harder, you're going to kill yourself. Oh, and those 300 members are freaking awesome. You are A Very Hungry Caterpillar! It's BLOODY Never Enough!.
"Well, that's because I'm OLD. I'm in a hurry."
"Fuck You. You're not old."
"Well, you're not even able to fix your BATHROOM!."
"That's because I've got to work day and night."
Yes, this is what it sound like when I'm in FREAKING FIGHT MODE!!
Like I said. It's not pretty.
But I'm sharing it with you because - Maybe - you recognize the Inner Bullshit Monologue. And -Hopefully - you want to change it too!
Let's both stop the fighting!
Because we should enjoy our already pretty amazing time on earth NOW. Not once we're down on the ground and have fought our way to the next level.
Yes, I will tap on that (I added one of Brad's amazing EFT video's. Go through his videos and find the one that works for you.
Are you ready to give up the fight? Shall we both stop being blocked by fear?
Want to go for Ease, Grace and Consistent Action? *like the members of the Brave Business Academy?
1. Figure Out your Zone of Genius
2. Get support (you don't have to do this alone)
3. Upgrade your Self-Love (start NOW)
4. Hug yourself, go for a walk, laugh, drink lovely tea, be very kind to yourself.
You can do this!
I wish you a beautiful day!!
Lots of love,
Esther de Charon de Saint Germain
Super Intuitive Brave Business & Brand Queen